Wednesday, 29 April 2009

Mums

The Working Women
Recently, the topic, whether of not a woman should be allowed to work until her child is at least 12 years old, is widely discussed around the world. The people who think women should work said that getting a job is a basic right for women, but others thought family and baby are more important. So, what are the reasons? Well, let us go through it on both sides.
Why women should be allowed to work? Firstly, it is quite clear that a job means more incomes for the family. Money is really important for everyone, if the father wage is not enough to afford a family, the woman will need to find a job. In today’s society, one needs money to survive, in order to get money, one needs work. Secondly, some women feel a career and financial security is greater importance, they find more incomes imply a better quality of life. Afterwards, they firmly believed without any doubt that it is quite important to a woman to have financial independence in case of she find her along, and then she have to raise her child, then she needs money. Finally, they said anyone has the responsibility to be a contributing part of the society. Sometimes, a woman has no choice. The women who live in a poor part of Africa, although they normally have 3 or more children, they have to work. That’s because of the poverty. A woman who is living in a country which just finished a war, so that the country needs lots of labors, then she has to work. That is all of the reasons for why a woman should work which I want to concern.
So, why women should not be allowed to work until the children are at least 12? For women’s personalities, does baby and family come first or is a career and financial security of greater importance? It’s their families’ choice. If a mum went to work, she does not have enough time to look after her child, and there are so many problems between her and her child such as the meals may not on time, Next, the child who have little time to be with his mother might feel lonely. It said that the first tutor of a person is his mother. Thirdly, there are some historical factors. Earlier man was the provider of a family, and the women was the homemaker, that is, the history of working women is very short. The idea that defining a woman as a homemaker is still exist someone’s mind. There are many homemaker type wives in nowadays who perform household duties, cooking and cleaning, and raising children. This concept takes a big part. Eventually, if someone is asking why a married woman needs to work as opposed to rely on her husband then we are talking about something complete different. Let us assume that a woman is looking to be a “kept wife”, and then she provides companionship in exchange for financial support from her husband, much like an escort.
From my point of view, I prefer to let women stay home for looking after children. But I firmly believed that everyone is equal, men also have the responsibility to look after children. Then we got two chioces: 1.The man goes to work, and the woman stays home.2.The woman goes to work, the man stays home. Who earns more, goes to work. That’s my opinion.
In conclusion, there are lots of evidences to support both sides. Women have to comply with the requirements from their families and countries, that's it.

Tuesday, 28 April 2009

Jay Chou

Befor Jay became a superstar,he worked in a restaurant as a waiter.Because he didn't have
enough money to support his music,even his live.In today's society,everyone needs money to survive.He wrote lots of songs,and introduced his songs
to some mucial companies.Although his songs are really good,he failed many times.Many of his
music sing about love,belonging, wars and families.

When I was 12 year old,I went to another city which is far away from my home.My parents were so busy,I can only see them less than 3 times a term.I was homesick,and I found I can't get help from my family for my studies as my mates,so , I felt disappointed.At that moment ,I started to listen his music. I found some valueble songs such as LONGQUANG,They really helped me. He told me how to bepositive of my life, how to be happy when you met difficulties.I found a better way of studying.

There are many reasons why I like him.His appearance attracted lots of fans: a cool hair style
which is quite different from other singers,his out standing stresses...I imitated his way,the hairs,the attitude to life,the way he speaks.

He changes my life,not noly my dress style but also a positive attitude to life.He told his fans:The god created people for reasons,you should find the reasons.When you are still living...do
something.
His music are described in one word by his fans:fantasy!

Wednesday, 22 April 2009

One the Bus

Every day morning,I catch a bus to go to my school.When I'm on the bus,I always observe the people there.
Most people on the bus which I see everyday are in hurry,but some are not.I have seen a lot of kinds person on the bus like tutors,students,assistants,managers of a firm,dancers,bookkeepers and so on.But when they are sitting on the bus,they look like have a same position called passenger.People there are all very careful to avoid touch anybody,when they touch any part of your body,even if it is a small element of your bag,and you didn't realize it,they will say sorry to you.
Once,I was quite boring,so I decided to go to the town to do some shopping.I met a guy who has a special bus ticket for a whole year on the bus.I talked with him,he told me he was also very boring,his solution for spending time is sitting on the bus from the bus station to the end and listening music and repeat it again and again.Because he've already paid the bus fee for a whole year,therefore his did is possible.Well,I know he's a little bit strange,but I like him.
I like to take a bus and talk with people who sit next to me ,perhaps I can make some new friend.I enjoy it.

Tuesday, 21 April 2009

A new Start

I got my new glasses today,it means I can see the whiteboard clearly again.That's really good.I treat it as a new start for my studies.I did quite bad in my last term English exam,even though I think I could get much more marks,but the fact is I failed.
A new dictionary comes in my life,it's OXFORD advanced learner's dictionary.I hope I can get more support than my translator from it.well,now I need to have lunch and I haven't finish my today's lessons,so I have to speed up.it will be continued in the evening......

Monday, 20 April 2009

About Bryant.


Hello everyone,I have just created my blog today.
My Chinese name is Qingjing Mao,I'm 18 year-old.I come from ZheJiang Province,China.Perhaps most britishers don't know where it is,then I found out a easier way to explain my city's location:"ZheJiang is near ShangHai,that is ,I live near ShangHai."
I'm studying in the ISC which is a foundation belongs to the University of Leicester. I came here for learning Business.In China ,many tertiary level students told me that they feel really boring in the university,and it has a quite loose management .I like to always keep myself busy and be positive in my whole life.That's why I come here.
When people ask me about my hobbies,I would only say my hobbies are listening JAY's(the most popular singer in China) music and playing basketball.Nowadays,because of my busy study,I do not play basketball very much,maybe just at weekends.
I have relative longer hairs than other boys. My mates say it's the most outstanding feature of my appearance.
I feel that's enough for my self-introduction,if you want know me more,come to my blog frequently.
My Motto is:"I think the god creats people for reasons, everyone need to be positive,working hard and happy to face everyday .When you are still living,do something. "
Thank you for reading.
(I felt so happy that Mr jones taught me creating an english blog easily.Therefore I want to say thank you to Den first.I hadn't know how to do it before.I gotta posting invariably.)
Bryant
20/04/2009